Can Being A Working Mom Work Against You?
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Posted: 8:24 AM Nov 18, 2009
Can Being A Working Mom Work Against You?
Researchers say being a working mom can actually work against you. It’s called the motherhood penalty.
Reporter: Lauri Martin
Email Address: lmartin@kktv.com
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Researchers say being a working mom can actually work against you. It’s called the motherhood penalty.

Studies suggest that working mothers are perceived to lack commitment and that comes at a cost with moms getting paid five percent less per child than childless women doing the same jobs.

Beth Roalstad puts in more than 40 hours at the office as the executive director at the Women's Resource Agency. “I feel like I have my dream job now," says Roalstad.

After work, she picks up her two daughters to go home to her other full-time job. “The best I can do is end at five o’clock on most days and get home and go into mommy time. I help with homework, make dinner, read stories and put them to bed, so we can do it all over the next day."

She knows what the motherhood penalty is and has seen it in action. “I have a girlfriend who is a paralegal. She took the minimal time off when she had a baby because she felt her job may be in jeopardy if she took full 12 weeks off."

In a study released by Cornell University, researchers sent out fake resumes from equally qualified candidates. Some of those resumes had words on them that hinted that the applicants were mothers, like being part of a PTA. The result: the childless women got twice as many interviews.

"It’s not fair, but it is a reality,” says Amy Cohen, a career coach. She says the number one way to get your foot in the door if you’re looking for a job, is to network. Tell your friends you’re looking for a job and don’t forget about on-line social networking through Web sites like Facebook.

“No longer is it an asset, but actually a detriment to the job search," Cohen says about working mothers. Her advice: keep the resume professional and mommy-neutral. For example, Cohen recommends not listing volunteer experience that would include the PTA.

Cohen also says many mothers who are job-hunting right now may have gaps in their resumes because of the time they took off to stay at home with the children. Cohen suggests making a functional resume instead of a chronological one. It should list skills and experience and you can leave the dates off.

During the interview, if the employer asks about your children, Cohen recommends to stay professional. “You need to have a plan in place.” Tell the interviewer about what you would do if your kids got sick. Cohen says it’s about proving that your kids won’t interfere with work.


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Posted by: Jane Location: WestSide on Nov 19, 2009 at 02:04 PM

Unbelievable... what will they think of next to make it more difficult for woman? We already have the tough choices: work or stay home, school or put our husband through school, career or family? Add in aging parents, a poor economy and the divorce rate. Kind of wish my 'sisters' hadn't burned their bras afterall...
Posted by: brandon Location: co on Nov 19, 2009 at 11:40 AM

so pretty much MOTHERS shouldn't pull their weight and help earn an income to support their families???
Posted by: Sarah Location: Colorado Springs on Nov 18, 2009 at 10:16 PM

This is so true. I worked for a local non profit organization, which some would think would be more sympathetic to working moms, but I found the opposite. After I told my employer I was pregnant with my 2nd child I was passed over for a promotion, and advised not to take the full 12 week FMLA or I might been viewed as less commmitted to the organization than others. When I returned from leave a new employee had been added to my dept who was basically doing my job. I still had my job but I felt as though the environment had been set up to make it very uncomfortable for me in hopes that I would leave. Prior to getting pregnant I had won an employee award for excellence. After maternity leave everything had changed. Suddenly the flex schedule I had worked previously was no longer efficient for the company. It's not legal, but it's also easy for employers to get around with rules without getting caught.
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